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04 Mar 08:20

Explore the transformative insights with Clint Pulver on the nuanced differences between managing, leading, and mentoring for impactful organisational culture

Ever wondered what truly separates a manager from a leader... and then, where does a mentor fit into the mix? 🤔 Dive into a fascinating chat with Clint Pulver, a maestro of organisational culture, as we peel back the layers of what makes each role unique and indispensable. In this eye-opening conversation, Clint shares insights that challenge the conventional wisdom, especially in the aftermath of the pandemic's shake-up of the workplace.

Are you leading, managing, or mentoring? And more importantly, how does each approach impact your team's loyalty, productivity, and overall happiness? We're not giving away the secrets just yet, but get ready for some revelations that might just redefine how you view your role within your organization.

Click play below and join the business brew to uncover the subtle art of truly effective leadership - It's about more than just guiding the ship; it's about caring for everyone on board. 🚀

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29 Feb 13:53

Organisational responsibility in the digital age

In our hyper-connected world, the boundaries between our online and offline lives are blurring. But as we embrace this digital age, are organisations doing enough to safeguard their teams? In our thought-provoking 'Eggshell' conversation with digital empowerment expert Yasmin London we explored the role of organisational responsibility in the digital landscape.

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First things first, have you ever considered the impact of the online world on your team's well-being? Yasmin shares a startling insight: "96% of deepfakes are pornographic in nature and 99% include women." It's clear that the digital realm is not just a playground but also a battleground, especially for women. How is your organisation addressing this?

But it's not just about deepfakes. The online disinhibition effect, as Yasmin explains, is where "people are more willing to say or do things online that they would never do in a face-to-face situation." This can lead to a toxic online environment that spills over into the workplace. Are you fostering digital resilience among your team to navigate these challenges?

Now, here's the million-pound question: What is your organisation doing to support employees facing online abuse, even if it happens outside of work? Yasmin emphasises the importance of creating safe spaces for conversations and providing resources for online safety. "It's not just about responsibility," she says, "it's about doing what's right."

So, let's reflect. Is your organisation proactive in educating and protecting your team in the digital world? Are you fostering an environment where everyone feels safe, respected, and empowered, both online and offline?

We'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this crucial topic. Let's keep the conversation going and work together to make the digital age a safer and more inclusive space for all.

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28 Feb 13:43

How often do you trust your intuition? Do you even recognise what your intuition feels like?

In Western society, we frequently concentrate on data, results, and outcomes to such an extent that we overlook the guiding light within us—the voice that truly has our best interests at heart.

We had the pleasure of speaking with Laetitia Andrac, author of "Light It," on this compelling topic, a conversation that is essential for all business owners and leaders.

During our discussion, we covered:

  • The critical importance of intuition

  • Recognising when we are acting against our intuition

  • The principles of First Nations thinking and the necessity for Western society to embrace the wisdom they offer

  • The L.I.G.H.T framework

And much more. Click the video below to watch the full and free conversation. 

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28 Feb 07:13

Transforming Fear into Action: A Path to Unshakeable Confidence

Have you ever felt the icy grip of fear holding you back? It's a sensation we're all too familiar with—whether it's the fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown. But what if I told you that your fears aren't roadblocks, but rather signposts, guiding you towards growth and self-assurance? In a riveting conversation with Jaemin Frazer (which you can watch here), renowned authority on insecurity, we delved deep into this transformative idea.

"Fear is a natural part of the human experience," Jaemin begins, setting the stage for a journey into understanding rather than a battle to be won. "It's not about eliminating fear but learning to dance with it." This notion of embracing fear rather than fleeing from it might sound counterintuitive, but it's the cornerstone of true confidence.

But how do we start this dance? Jaemin suggests a simple yet profound shift: "Acknowledge your fear. Sit with it, understand its roots, and then, ask yourself—what is it really trying to tell me?" This introspection can illuminate the often-misunderstood purpose of our fears, revealing them as protectors trying to keep us safe. Yet, in understanding them, we can reassess whether they're serving us or holding us back.

This is where transformation happens. "Once you understand your fear, you're at a crossroads," Jaemin points out. "You can let it define your limits, or you can use it as a springboard to leap into action." But taking that leap requires a fundamental belief in one's ability to handle whatever comes next. "Confidence," Jaemin elucidates, "is not knowing you'll succeed, but knowing you'll be okay, regardless of the outcome."

So, what does this mean for you? Are there fears in your life that you've allowed to dictate your actions? What might happen if you viewed them as opportunities for growth instead?

Imagine the possibilities if every fear became a challenge to be embraced, a question to be answered, a mystery to be unraveled. This shift in perspective is not just about building confidence; it's about cultivating a life of authenticity, resilience, and, ultimately, fulfillment.

Jaemin leaves us with a thought-provoking insight: "The most confident people aren't those without fears; they're the ones who've mastered the art of turning their fears into steps on the path to greatness."

As you reflect on this conversation, consider the fears holding you back. How can you transform them into action? Remember, the journey to confidence is paved with the stones of our fears, faced and conquered. Let's start walking that path today.

Join our 'LIVE WELL' movement for the price of a Cuppa a month ($5) and get access to exclusive shows like Jaemin's Lunch and Learn conversation here

Want to book Jaemin in for a private talk with your team? Enquire here 

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25 Feb 20:23

Ever feel like you're stuck in the "I know I should, but..." loop? 🔄 Meet Paul Taylor and his game-changing EASIER framework, designed to leap from thought to action. 🚀

In an engaging chat, Paul spills the beans on a method that's, well, easier than you'd think. But we're not giving away the magic just yet. Why watch the video? Because it's packed with insights that could be the nudge you need to finally make those changes stick.

Curious? Discover how to align your brain, your environment, and your habits to not just dream big, but achieve big. No more spoilers, just a promise: You'll leave with a toolkit for turning "someday" into "today."

Dive in below, and let's transform your potential into reality. Your journey to "I did it!" starts here. 🌟

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21 Feb 13:33

Are you ready to be your own leadership coach? 

Uncover the power of self-coaching with Karen Stein, author of 'Be Your Own Leadership Coach'. In this enlightening (and free) conversation, Karen shares the secrets to leading with authenticity, mastering the art of listening, and creating a personal board of directors.

Learn how to navigate the complexities of leadership, break through barriers, and harness your strengths for success. Are you ready to transform your leadership journey?

Tune in and discover how to be the leader you were meant to be! Watch now and take the first step towards empowering your leadership!

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18 Feb 16:11

Breaking Free from the Chains of Self-Sabotage with Dr Richard Hogan

Ever found yourself on the cusp of something brilliant, only to inexplicably take actions that seem to throw you two steps back? Welcome to the perplexing world of self-sabotage, where it’s your own mind playing the unlikely villain in your success story. In a revealing chat on Cuppa.tv  with Richard Hogan, author of 'Home is Where the Start Is', we ventured into the depths of this self-defeating behaviour. Richard's insights illuminate the intricate web of thoughts leading us down this spiral.

"Patterns... they're too subtle to notice," muses Richard, pinpointing the stealthy nature of self-sabotage. These patterns, deeply woven into our psyche, often remain unnoticed until we find ourselves trapped in a cycle of undermining our own efforts. But why do we engage in this self-destructive dance?

Richard poses that these patterns aren’t random but rather habits of thought we’ve solidified over time. "Your thoughts are just habits," he clarifies, "They're not facts." This distinction is vital. It suggests we possess the power to alter them. The real question is, can we recognise when we're ensnared in these traps?

Consider this: How often have you told yourself, "I'm not good enough," or "I don't deserve success"? These thoughts are not mere fleeting concerns; they’re paradigms shaping our behaviours and reactions. Richard observes, "We react to them emotionally," letting these thoughts determine our self-worth and, ultimately, our actions.

So, how do we break free? Richard proposes a straightforward yet profound strategy: Recognise, challenge, and replace. Beginning with awareness—identifying these patterns of negative self-talk as they arise—is key. "When I'm working with clients," Richard shares, "I'd explain to them... let me hear that churn, that stuff that really you don't like." Acknowledging these thoughts is the first step towards dismantling them.

However, awareness on its own isn’t enough. We must also actively challenge these ingrained beliefs. Richard encourages us to pivot towards more positive, affirming thoughts. "Give me three things you'd like to say about yourself that if you believe them, it would impact your life in a positive way." This reprogramming of our thought patterns from negative to positive is essential in overcoming self-sabotage.

In our conversation, Richard reminded us that change is a gradual process. It's a journey of small, consistent steps towards self-awareness and self-improvement. "It's the simplest thing," he notes, highlighting the power of positive reinforcement over our neural pathways.

So, the next time you find yourself teetering on the edge of self-sabotage, pause and reflect. Are you slipping into old, detrimental patterns of thought? What positive affirmations can you introduce instead? Remember, the journey to overcoming self-sabotage starts with a single step: recognising that these thoughts are habits, not truths.

Key links to explore further

  • Watch the snackable conversation below

  • Watch the full replay here

  • Book Richard to speak to your team here

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14 Feb 13:07

Are you and your partner speaking the same financial language? It's a question worth pondering, especially if you're planning a future together. As Nicole Haddow, author of "Couple Goals," points out, "We had to have really big conversations about money probably much earlier than many couples do."

The Importance of Timing

Timing is everything, especially when it comes to money talks. Nicole's experience highlights the importance of discussing finances early in the relationship. But when is the right time? "Before you move in together, before you make any big financial commitments, that's the time to start talking," Nicole advises. It's about setting the stage for a future where both partners are on the same page financially.

The Art of Conversation

Starting the conversation can be daunting, but it's crucial. Nicole suggests a gentle approach: "It's about understanding what's happening for you as an individual financially and how you're going to work as a team financially." But how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without causing tension? Nicole shares her strategy: "We went out for dinner and I told him here's some stuff that I think it's really important that we discuss." It's about creating a comfortable environment for an open and honest discussion.

The Impact on Your Relationship

The benefits of early financial conversations go beyond just money management. They can strengthen your relationship in unexpected ways. "Understanding your childhood experiences with money, your adult experiences with money, any trauma associated with money... it helps you understand why your partner is potentially behaving the way that they are," Nicole explains. It's about building empathy and understanding, which are key components of a strong partnership.

Are You Ready to Start the Conversation?

If you haven't had the money talk with your partner yet, there's no time like the present. Start small, be honest, and listen to each other. Remember, it's not just about the numbers; it's about building a future together. As Nicole puts it, "It's really useful to have a discussion about what the values are that are driving that because that helps you understand each other's behavior and why you want things."

So, what are you waiting for? Set the date, pick a cozy spot, and start laying the foundation for a financially harmonious future.

For more insights on navigating finances:

  • Check out Nicole Haddow's book, "Couple Goals." here

  • Watch the replay below or click here

  • Send an enquiry here if you want Nicole to come and speak to your team

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07 Feb 21:17

Have you ever faced a situation where every decision could be the difference between success and failure? Imagine making these choices under the ocean's surface, in a submarine, where the margin for error is razor-thin. This is the world Ex Commodore Peter Scott of the Royal Australian Navy knows all too well.

In a recent conversation, Scott shared an experience that could easily be a script for a Hollywood thriller: the day he ran HMAS Collins aground. "We were screaming along the bottom, ripping underwater fittings and paint off," Scott recalls, painting a vivid picture of a high-stakes scenario. How would you respond in such a crisis?

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Scott's response was not about asserting control or diving into complex technicalities. Instead, it was about clarity and acceptance. "I just said one thing. I said, 'We're aground.' That little bit of clarity and acceptance of reality... they just immediately went, 'Oh, we're aground. We know the EOPs [Emergency Operating Procedures].'"

Isn't it fascinating how simplicity can be powerful in chaos?

But here's the kicker: Scott believes that every two years, the Navy prepared him for such transitions, each new job being a step into the unknown. "It's just a step in a different direction... I've actually got a bit of autonomy," he explains. How often do we view our career transitions as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles?

Scott's experiences underline a fundamental truth about leadership: It's less about wielding power and more about instilling confidence and clarity in your team. "It was just they just needed to know the situation as simply and clearly as I can place it," he says.

So, as we navigate our professional and personal submarines through the murky waters of uncertainty, let's ask ourselves: How can we apply Scott's lessons of simplicity, clarity, and self-confidence to our own high-stakes situations? Remember, sometimes, the power lies not in the complexity of our commands but in the simplicity of our communication.

As Scott's journey shows, the depths of the ocean can teach us a lot about rising to the surface in leadership. What will your next dive uncover? 🌊🌟

Click the link below to watch the full replay of the show

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